“Only when we have lost everything; we are free to do anything” – source unknown
The most loved area (a pond, believe me) known and loved by us which we naturally are hesitant to leave.
So, it may be a nice(I doubt) job, a daily schedule that we follow or many other things. This comfort zone handcuffs us with pretentious happiness that we carry through out our lives. But deep down something eats us up for not doing ‘that’ right thing.
But we can’t exit this pond because we are happy(at least pretend to be happy) with whatever we have. Actually, we are not ready to cross this bars of comfort zone. We are not ready to give up the things we have(we might have earned those things with great effort, saturated then, uh?) easily. We have a fear of losing something.
Devastated and free to leave a comfort zone
Now imagine that you have nothing no money(financially devastated), had serious relationship issues(emotionally devastated) and many bad things in world. Now, what you have and what you are, nothing. Now you don’t have a fear of losing anything and thus are free to do anything. This will easily help you move out of your pond to an ocean of awesome happenings.